By What’s more important? A capacity a person beholds or a personality that one reflects?
Let’s start with a normal example. Suppose Jack is rich but illiterate. He has a habit of bragging about his wealth. He tried to reflect his personality with his property and wealth. He wears a shirt, buys a car. But he’s not capable of cooking his own food.
Then there’s Mark who recently completed his doctorate. He also has a part-time job and earns a lot of money from his profession. He is capable of buying what he wishes for but always rides a cycle. He prefers wearing a simple plain shirt and pants. He rather spends most of his time at the hospital treating a patient. He doesn’t have a high-looking personality.
According to you who is a better person?
We have to understand that the personality made out of materials doesn’t last long. A person’s behavior, attitude, and the way they respond to any situation reflect their true personality. This personality is ever-lasting. And talking about capacity. Everyone is capable of doing something in life. But how much their use their capacity and what they use it for determines a person’s personality.
A person who’s rich and thinks money is capable of doing everything has a bad personality. He may be capable of buying a luxurious car, buy what he wants but it will vanish the moment the money is gone. His personality will fall apart.
On other hand, one who works hard with all their skill and capacity to help others, serve others may not have a good-looking personality. But he reflects his generous and loyal personality through work.
It’s not a matter of temporary personality but a long-lasting true personality. And it’s not a matter of bragging about how capable you are but what matters is how your capability will serve others.
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